My Husband Doesn’t Like Foreplay

Dear E. Jean: I’ve been married one week and my husband won’t caress me like he did before we were married. He says he’s now my “husband” and he has the right to just “stick it in.” He refuses to hug me or touch me, and after I tried telling him honestly what I wanted, he said, “You can’t force me to do it.” He’s a financial analyst on Wall Street, so he’s not stupid or sexually ignorant. —Too Premature to Consider a Divorce?

Miss Premature, my parsnip: I don’t like the sound of this chump one bit. Unless he’s still drunk from the wedding, get rid of him. This is one compromise that is too great to make.

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